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 Posted:   Feb 6, 2020 - 10:46 AM   
 By:   Octoberman   (Member)

All my romantic stupidities took place when I was a fumbly teenager--as they do for most of us, I guess.

To wit:
In junior high I was smitten with this one girl who was a year or 2 younger.
But she was the sister of my best buddy, so our "dating" was limited to just hanging around together all the time and MAYBE holding hands once in a while.
Here comes the weird part:
A few months later another girl appears out of literally nowhere and throws herself at me, mind, body and soul. And she was gorgeous.
I couldn't help but be flattered and went with it.
For that interval the first girl was left in the dust, but I could not keep her totally out of my mind.
So, something more substantial with the second girl was never seriously pursued--I went back to my bud's sister.
A year later that itself died a gradual death and at the same time, I found that another buddy of mine was availing himself of that second girl's ample attentions.
At the time, I thought okay, her attraction to me was never going to be a serious thing. Good to know early on that she was prone to flitting from guy to guy.
My buddy's sister eventually moved away and the second girl settled down and had a bunch of kids.

It's funny how some things can still be so vivid 40 or 45 years later.
Man, I was stupid. LOL

Enough ruminating... time for a cup of tea.

 
 Posted:   Feb 6, 2020 - 11:46 AM   
 By:   jackfu   (Member)

Saw the highly-commercial Valentine's Day candy display at the supermarket yesterday. Had I actually bought one, there was no way the cashier--any cashier--would believe I was getting it for anyone other than myself.

Jim, aren't you being a little hard on yourself (so to speak)?

wink

 
 Posted:   Feb 6, 2020 - 12:59 PM   
 By:   Jim Phelps   (Member)

Octoman: Great post! Now THAT'S the kind of brutal, but self-deprecating honesty this thread requires! You and Thor have been true sports for telling your tales.

Saw the highly-commercial Valentine's Day candy display at the supermarket yesterday. Had I actually bought one, there was no way the cashier--any cashier--would believe I was getting it for anyone other than myself.

Jim, aren't you being a little hard on yourself (so to speak)?


I'm married, which is quite a different thing than being "Catnip to the ladies."

This begs the question: Who are FSM's "resident hunks"?

 
 Posted:   Feb 6, 2020 - 1:25 PM   
 By:   Octoberman   (Member)

Octoman: Great post! Now THAT'S the kind of brutal, but self-deprecating honesty this thread requires! You and Thor have been true sports for telling your tales.


Thanks, man. Too kind.


This begs the question: Who are FSM's "resident hunks"?


ME!
I didn't start out as one... I eventually became one.
big grin
Picture a be-whiskered Riker with a little of Val Kilmer "Iceman" mixed in.
Eats yer hearts out ladies--and some gents.

(I could not let that accusation of being self-deprecating stand unchallenged. Sorry.)

 
 Posted:   Feb 8, 2020 - 4:38 AM   
 By:   Jim Phelps   (Member)

Along with my "long-threatened" list of "on the spectrum" FSMers, I have long "threatened" to produce a list of FSM's "resident hunks." The former will be longer than a Graham Watt ramble, and the latter will be shorter than the typical Dogbelle post.

 
 Posted:   Feb 8, 2020 - 9:14 AM   
 By:   Solium   (Member)

Not one to ever date the prettiest or hottest girl in High School I remember a super pretty girl who road my school bus was flirting with me. Normally I would've jump on a girl like her, but she had such a b*tchy personality I snub her. Even as an unpopular shy nerd I had standards.

 
 Posted:   Feb 8, 2020 - 9:35 AM   
 By:   Octoberman   (Member)

Jim, can you share with us some of the criteria you will be using in collating your list(s)?

 
 Posted:   Feb 8, 2020 - 10:08 AM   
 By:   Jim Phelps   (Member)

Jim, can you share with us some of the criteria you will be using in collating your list(s)?

Such a list would no doubt be offensive to those on it, so it'll probably never be written.

However, the criteria is fair game, and you people can use your Thunderball-era jetpack to zoom to your own conclusions.

Another category I have is Mainstream FSMers. They consist of people who rarely, if ever, post on this side of the board.

I'll be posting a few of my own romantic failure stories in time for Valentine's Day--only the chocolates I'll be stuffing into my face will keep me from weeping.

 
 Posted:   Feb 8, 2020 - 11:04 AM   
 By:   Octoberman   (Member)

Such a list would no doubt be offensive to those on it, so it'll probably never be written.
However, the criteria is fair game, and you people can use your Thunderball-era jetpack to zoom to your own conclusions.



Damn!
Now I can think of nothing I would rather read!

And anyone who would be offended should calm themselves with a pat on the back of the head with a cricket bat.

 
 Posted:   Feb 8, 2020 - 11:51 AM   
 By:   Jim Phelps   (Member)

If "spectrum"-like thoughts come to mind when reading a post, then they are most likely on my list of "On the Spectrum" FSMers, too. So many of these guys make it so easy to pigeonhole them, just by their very words; they don't post any other way and categorization is perfunctory.

BTW, the term "On the Spectrum" was unknown to me until OnyaBirri mentioned it during our great get together three years(!) ago. The appellation perfectly describes a certain prolific FSMer.

I'm just a naive kid from the suburbs, waiting, but not wishing to be, exploited. big grin

 
 Posted:   Feb 9, 2020 - 8:26 AM   
 By:   Jim Phelps   (Member)

While Valentine's Day is a commercial monstrosity, I am saddened by chocolate boxes--heart-shaped or not--lacking cream-filled chocolates. You know, the ones everyone squeezes and then puts back in the box because it's not caramel or a truffle.

Well I love the cream-filled chocolates. I love the orange, strawberry, chocolate, and vanilla creams, but they seem to have disappeared from stores over the past ten years or so. Are the chocolate cream assortments no longer made?

It saddens me.

 
 Posted:   Feb 9, 2020 - 8:35 AM   
 By:   Bill Carson, Earl of Poncey   (Member)

Such crap is available in uk.

Especially in card shops.

 
 Posted:   Feb 9, 2020 - 8:42 AM   
 By:   Jim Phelps   (Member)

Such crap is available in uk.

"Good luck in trying to live forever, pal."

~Tall Guy

 
 Posted:   Feb 9, 2020 - 9:13 AM   
 By:   Michael Scorefan   (Member)

While Valentine's Day is a commercial monstrosity, I am saddened by chocolate boxes--heart-shaped or not--lacking cream-filled chocolates. You know, the ones everyone squeezes and then puts back in the box because it's not caramel or a truffle.

Well I love the cream-filled chocolates. I love the orange, strawberry, chocolate, and vanilla creams, but they seem to have disappeared from stores over the past ten years or so. Are the chocolate cream assortments no longer made?

It saddens me.


Do you have See's Candy out where you are? They sell a large variety of cream filled chocolates, although they aren't cheap. The less expensive ones that used to be a staple at many drug stores and retail stores like Target and Walmart do seem to have been pushed out in favor of big corporate candy bars rebranding their same product into heart shaped boxes, albeit often being heart shaped. For example, heart shaped boxes of Reese's peanut butter cups, Dove chocolates etc.

My grandmother always used to get a big box of those cream-filled chocolates that came with a flavor guide that was virtually illegible, or seemed a few batches out of date, and no matter how hard I tried to find one I liked, I inevitably ended up with the maple pecan. Ugh.

 
 
 Posted:   Feb 9, 2020 - 10:14 AM   
 By:   joan hue   (Member)

See's candy only shows up in our Mall right before Christmas and Valentine's day. They do have great cream filled chocolate, but they are pricey. I only buy boxes of cream filled chocolates, and my favorites are maple and vanilla filled ones. I always hit the stores on Dec. 26th and Feb. 15 and try to load up on Russel Stover boxes of cream filled candy. They sell at half price then. Not as good a See's but still good.

 
 Posted:   Feb 9, 2020 - 1:21 PM   
 By:   Jim Phelps   (Member)

The nearest See's is 30 miles of me, and in the fanciest, schmanciest part of town. I doubt I'll be in the area anytime soon, but I appreciate the tip, as I would try them out if I am in dire need of said chocolates.

 
 Posted:   Feb 9, 2020 - 2:20 PM   
 By:   Solium   (Member)

So we went from talking about shattered romantic dreams to fulfilling our loneliness by stuffing our faces with candy. Sounds about right.

 
 Posted:   Feb 11, 2020 - 8:05 AM   
 By:   Jim Phelps   (Member)

Well whaddya know, not all is lost! I picked up a heart-shaped box of that good old fashioned American chocolate standby, Whitman's Sampler, and lo and behold: there are chocolate creams! The wife and I haven't blasted through the entire box yet, but so far there has been an orange cream and vanilla cream.

Who needs love when there's chocolate creams (still, as of this writing) to be had!

 
 Posted:   Feb 11, 2020 - 8:43 AM   
 By:   Bill Carson, Earl of Poncey   (Member)

So friday's valentines chocolates for the missus...have been eaten by you on Tuesday?!! Man, she must love you to let you get away with a crime like that!! ha ha

 
 Posted:   Feb 12, 2020 - 4:22 AM   
 By:   Jim Phelps   (Member)

So friday's valentines chocolates for the missus...have been eaten by you on Tuesday?!! Man, she must love you to let you get away with a crime like that!! ha ha

I also noticed that...

We have a Mai Kai visit planned--though not for Valentine's Day itself, making it quasi tragic--but we do have stuff planned for the weekend.

I'm truly surprised at the FSMer reluctance to "look back amid the laughter and tears" while sharing their tales of love gone wrong.

DinB? Graham Watt? Bill? So many FSMers' posts give off more than a whiff of the cordite-like burn of pheromones, so share your stories, as Valentine's Day--that day of love--is right around the corner.

 
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