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Feb 12, 2008 - 8:11 AM
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Cryogenix
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Hey, Jack, as you grow and obtain greater wisdom, I think you'll come to find that "plain" is beautiful. Take it from a guy who's dated a lot of women, the obviously pretty ones lose their visual appeal and interest very fast. I used to only date "apparently" pretty girls, then I fell in love with my best friend who I never thought was very attractive, and suddenly I regarded her as the most beautiful woman on Earth. There's something to be said about "subtle" beauty; that which reveals itself slowly over time and allows it to be explored rather than simply seen.
In any case, we never (and can't) see ourselves as others do...never. You might think you're plain and perhaps unhandsome, but others may find you completely adorable and charming. Your shyness and/or lack of confidence and self-esteem will kill their perception of you though, since it's a fact that woman love confidence in a man more than anything else. Someone to take charge in the bedroom, someone to stand tall beside her in a crowded place to protect her, someone who's confident enough to be vulnerable and sensitive yet strong and manly when it's required.
Go out there and ask someone out. You have nothing to lose. The worst she can say is no. If she's a stranger, you'll never have to see her again anyway, so who cares?
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I don't hate it, especially since I've got a paid gig playing for a Valentines evening on the 14th Feb!
But one doesn't have to restrict themselves to one day a year to show their significant other how much they love them.
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I met my wife thanks to Match.com. We were both working on Lizzie Maguire at the same time, yet would never have known the other was available if it weren't for the net. Now we've got an adorable girl who enjoys repeatedly listening to Bolt. So I believe the net does work. You just have to approach it like a job, and hit the sites every day and continue to send out invites for coffee (or dinner, if you really get the vibe). That's my advice. Believe me, I HATED Valentine's Day probably more than anyone on this board before computers saved my social life.
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