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LOG IN Forgot Login? Register General Discussion • Trading Post • Non-Film Score Discussion  Profile • Preferences • Community Rules • Help/Contact • Search Board Search Terms:  Search Within:  topics posts since 2019 2018 posts 2017 posts 2016 posts 2015 posts 2014 posts 2013 posts 2012 posts 2011 posts 2010 posts 2009 posts 2008 posts 2007 posts 2006 posts 2005 posts 2004 posts 2003 posts 2002 posts 2001 posts 2000 posts users  search tips  You must log in or register to post.   Go to page:  1 2      Non-Film Score Discussion: Girl problem     1 2    NEXT   LAST   Last Post   Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 2:06 PM     By:   barryfan   (Member) So I have this girl in my life that I really like, but at the same time, I want to move on. She's not the ONE. But I don't have the heart to tell her, so I have forged on. So............ this week, she got mad at me and is giving me the silent treatment. For all I know, she won't talk to me again. This is the window I have been waiting for and yet I am bummed. Mixed feelings galore. Thoughts?    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 2:20 PM     By:   Hurdy Gurdy   (Member) End it now, for both your sakes. If your heart isn't in it, you're cheating on two people.    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 2:36 PM     By:   Joe 1956   (Member) Trust me, the ONE doesn't exist.    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 2:48 PM     By:   leagolfer   (Member) If she's living with you at the moment that could be a problem, if she has keys . What I would do instead of just blurting it out, say, we need a week or 2 apart just to get her out of your face, Then when she is gone just tell her straight its done, that's if she is living with you though. If she isn't just tell her straight sling your hook. Past experiences living with birds they will trash your stuff in spite.    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 2:49 PM     By:   Bill Carson, Earl of Poncey   (Member) I concur with the lesser-spotted mcGannmeister. Cool it, put some distance there, stay mates if you want. The reason she has the hump aint what youve done - its because on some level she senses shes into you more than you are into her and it grinds her gears. Go in peace.    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 2:55 PM     By:   Bill Carson, Earl of Poncey   (Member) Plus get ready for 50 different replies, all advising you different courses of action. You gotta see the irony here - youre asking soundtrack nerds about relationships?!! Hell, we all talk shit here, whatever you do dont follow any advice!! Ha ha.    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 3:03 PM     By:   leagolfer   (Member) BF asked he got opinions now its up to him to decide plenty more women out there BF don't beat yourself over it.    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 4:18 PM     By:   WILLIAMDMCCRUM   (Member) There are at least four people in any relationship ... at LEAST. Your Mr. Jeckyll, her Ms. Jeckyll, your Mr. Hyde and her Ms. Hyde. And multiples of those too! Not all of the committee members of your psyche think the same way. 'Time for a committee meeting. And that's not even including physical addictions.    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 4:41 PM     By:   Solium   (Member) Kev gave the appropriate advice. If that doesn't work I suggest going all George Costanza on her.    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 4:46 PM     By:   Sir David of Garland   (Member) Mixed feelings galore. Thoughts? Communicate.    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 5:13 PM     By:   leagolfer   (Member) One bird I dated looked like the woman from the band Aqua, shame, she was a loon, I was assaulted by her many times, once with a fire poker, soon as that happened It was finished.    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 5:53 PM     By:   barryfan   (Member) Plus get ready for 50 different replies, all advising you different courses of action. You gotta see the irony here - youre asking soundtrack nerds about relationships?!! Hell, we all talk shit here, whatever you do dont follow any advice!! Ha ha. LOL!! I did think of that! lol But its you soundtrack nerds or my FB friends and I don't want people I actually know to be aware of all this. lol    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 6:01 PM     By:   barryfan   (Member) Mixed feelings galore. Thoughts? Communicate. That is the advice I usually give to people. Its my mantra - communication is the key! THAT SAID -- I am not so sure that applies when you are dealing with someone giving you the silent treatment. Two years ago, I had a girl I work with give me the silent treatment for 6-7 months. It has finally thawed, but only bc she got herself in a sticky situation I helped get her out of. Anyway, the thing she told me recently (when she was referring to someone else she was mad at) was that when a person is giving you the silent treatment they WANT you to try to communicate. It gives them something to ignore and continue to torture you with, thereby giving them immense pleasure. That was a VERY enlightening conversation. In fact, I might even start a post on just this topic.    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 6:52 PM     By:   Metryq   (Member) In fact, I might even start a post on just this topic. So that everyone can ignore it?    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 8:12 PM     By:   barryfan   (Member) In fact, I might even start a post on just this topic. So that everyone can ignore it? I see what you did there. lol    Posted:   Oct 8, 2016 - 8:32 PM     By:   Christopher Kinsinger   (Member) "Trust me, the ONE doesn't exist." Hold on there, Joe 1956! Your personal experience does not apply to everyone! I have found MY "ONE"! And… YOU may find yours tomorrow!    Posted:   Oct 9, 2016 - 3:15 AM     By:   Thor   (Member) You gotta see the irony here - youre asking soundtrack nerds about relationships?!! He, he...I was just about to say the same thing. I haven't been in a relationship in 10 years (and even that was more of a romance than a relationship), so I'm not one to give advice. So I won't.    Posted:   Oct 9, 2016 - 4:28 AM     By:   Tall Guy   (Member) So I have this girl in my life that I really like ... Thoughts? I think that, between liking and loving, liking is the trickier task, and if you can keep that going you can overcome most things. That's just a general comment, not intended to sway you either way. I agree, however, that if you intend to do something precipitate, get the hell on with it for both your sakes. TG    Posted:   Oct 9, 2016 - 6:33 AM     By:   Mr. Jack   (Member) Wish I could have some girl problems...    Posted:   Oct 9, 2016 - 8:11 AM     By:   leagolfer   (Member) Mr Jack, you will find women, you just have to put yourself out-there, a bit more, women don't have to be drop-dead gorgeous, looks only play a little part in relationships. I'd drafter have a woman with average looks, but a great personality, bubbly, than a drop dead gorgeous woman with a personality that stinks. Get out to the beach, night-clubs, pubs, even festivals, start communicating more, you will find some one, good luck, MJ.     Non-Film Score Discussion: Girl problem    < 1 2  > >>  Go to page:  1 2   First Post    General Discussion • Trading Post • Non-Film Score Discussion  Profile • Preferences • Community Rules • Help/Contact • Search Board You must log in or register to post.   Go to page:  1 2

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