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 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 2:30 PM   
 By:   Mister L   (Member)

I have some dear friends, who share my love for soundtracks, and we have great
meetings couple of times in a year. But then there´s relatives, parents, and those other
friends who doesn´t share my enthusiasm..... I´ll share couple of stories with you,
but i´m sure you have better ones.

When i was much younger, i was absolutely thrilled with Vangelis´ music. (And i still am)
Some of my friends came to visit me, and i had just bought Conquest Of Paradise. Then i
forced my friends to listen the whole score, while commenting how wonderful music
it was at the same time. They just stared the walls with empty eyes. This happened
couple of times, then they didn´t visit me anymore. big grin Well, i can only blame myself.

When Horner´s Titanic was released, one of my friends (not from those who were
traumatized) saw that in my shelf. He just couldn´t believe i was so childish to have
that kind of music, only because he hated Di Caprio so much. I tried to explain i like
the MUSIC, my hobby has nothing to do with the film, but that didn´t help..... I´ve
heard about that even after all these years constantly.

Third story: couple of years ago me and my friends were driving, we had a long trip
ahead and we had reserved some music with us to listen to. I put Conan the Barbarian
in, (Old Milan version). Pretty soon complaining started, what is this shit, lets hear
some rock´n roll! So that´s that. Maybe it was the quality of the old cd, perhaps?

My fellow collector friends on the other hand used to drive listening Goldsmiths Omen
with their car windows open, so i´m surprised anyone didn´t call the police.....

When i´m listening Goldsmith, or Elfman, my wife says she can´t stand it, too hectic....
so i use headphones to spare her from agony. big grin

I´ve selected a way too difficult hobby.

 
 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 2:32 PM   
 By:   Chris Avis   (Member)

While I don't hide my hobby per se, I certainly don't make much of an effort to openly share it. Too many people close to me have reacted in ways like you describe. My wife tolerates my film music collecting (although she persistently maintains I have way too many CDs - she's right!), but I wouldn't say she's particularly enthralled with it either.

Chris.

 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 2:41 PM   
 By:   MRAUDIO   (Member)

My Wife "mostly" likes the soundtrack CDs that I play her, especially while we are in the car.
She does, like me, love ANYTHING she hears by Mort Stevens. She knows how much the man's music makes me happy.

Her other favorite (mine as well) is Goldsmith's UNDER FIRE - every time I play that CD, she just plain gets really into that music.

She also likes Williams', THE TERMINAL...also great to play in the car while we are together.

I'm sure there are a few more, but the above comes to mind...:-)

 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 2:43 PM   
 By:   Solium   (Member)

I grew up in a family that always listened to orchestral music. Big Band, Classical, Movie scores. Three of them played musical instruments in high school and one in the military. So it was well accepted at home.

Outside of the family these are the responses I got-

(1) Sister-in-law- "What is that shit? Turn it off!"
(2) Co-worker- "I didn't know anyone actually listened to that stuff."
(3) Extended family member (Looking at my collection)- "You play all of those?"

 
 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 2:44 PM   
 By:   Thor   (Member)

With indifference, mostly.

 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 3:07 PM   
 By:   Thomas   (Member)

While I don't hide my hobby per se, I certainly don't make much of an effort to openly share it. Too many people close to me have reacted in ways like you describe. My wife tolerates my film music collecting (although she persistently maintains I have way too many CDs - she's right!), but I wouldn't say she's particularly enthralled with it either.

That's pretty much how it is round these parts as well, Chris. My wife puts up with it, though she constantly asks do I not already have that when I'm buying something new. She also thinks all Barry's music sounds the same! I don't personally know anyone who has interest in film music to any extent, apart from a little with my dad due to his love of 60s westerns. Most people look at me with bewilderment as to why I would listen to the music without the film. I'm also a big fan of musicals and don't know anyone else who shares that. I usually just get lumbered with the usual stereotypes.

 
 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 3:12 PM   
 By:   robertolopes   (Member)

My friends know about this "strange hobby" of mine. I just don't talk about it with them because, after some 20 years collecting movie scores, I realized that people are either into it or they're just NOT. And, believe me, when you ARE into it, you don't really need someone to tell you that soundtrack recordings exist as commercial stand-alone CDs/records/whatever...

So, I listen to my music alone. Period. Not even my wife stands it. I'm glad for discussion boards like this, because I can discuss soundtracks without sounding like admitting to a friend that I like to eat shit for fun. Seriously, that's mostly how I feel about it when someone asks about it and then asks for some samples of what I listen to...

Sure, people do enjoy some great themes such as the usual Williams, Barry, Mancini obviously tuneful and beautiful and memorable themes... But when they get a chance to sample action music, for instance, they react the same as if I was offering them a piece of my own shit to try and see how nice it tastes.

I used to torture my brother making him go through some Planet of The Apes bizarre cues, of stuff like that!

"I can't believe you listen to steel mixing bowls! It makes no damn sense!"

big grin Well, FUCK THEM! big grin I love film music. I love you guys!

 
 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 3:12 PM   
 By:   robertolopes   (Member)

douple post. Sorry.

 
 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 3:21 PM   
 By:   dbrooks   (Member)

The first thing that shocks everyone that knows me is the fact that I still have cds and buy cds. After all the comments about how out of touch I am with not buying digital music, they then discover that all these cds are not rock and roll bands that we know and we all grew up with. So I don't think that they will ever understand unless they start listening to soundtracks. No we don't collect Top Gun with Kenny Loggins and sing songs off Frozen. Its just a taste that you grow with and appreciate it when you know it. Plus us collectors can be real with ourselves and appreciate all kinds of music. But they might be laughing at us until they secretly listen to the Titanic on their headphones with the curtains shut and doors locked.

 
 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 3:23 PM   
 By:   samlowry   (Member)

The reactions I've had have generally been more positive, because...

a) I generally hang out with people who have a certain general appreciation for art and music

b) I usually "feel" what kind of film music a person may respond to and I will choose what to play him/her based on that. Most (younger) people nowadays tend to mention movies scored by Zimmer & Co., so I know what I can play them that will not scare them away. And it usually works. I had 3 girls in their 20's in my car (work colleagues), on our way to a dinner party, so I started with Pirates of the Caribbean 3 and some Dark Knight music, which they were digging (a sound they were used to), and once they were warmed up, I switched to Twilight Zone: The Movie. One of them freaked out when she heard the Benjamin Constant theme (she got scared), but relaxed when the Goldsmith Overture played out. By the end of the car ride, I swear we all became closer and I hang out with them today more than I used to before their "initiation", which leads me to...

c) I realize that film music can be quite therapeutic and that almost everyone has the potential to react positively to it, if exposed to the kind of soundtrack that will appeal to his/her senses somehow. Hence why I could play some John Carpenter music to one friend and Nino Rota to another. Just because they fall into the film music category, they couldn't be further apart musically speaking, just like people are very different from one another.

d) It's fun and different. Since most people never listen to this, it becomes entertaining when they do, in particular when they recognize themes from movies or TV shows... it reminds them of their youth or movies they love. It's also an opportunity to break conventions. I said it once on this board, but I'll repeat it here... I once did a slow dance with a beautiful girl in my living room while listening to the Zombi 2 theme by Fabbio Frizzi. She loved it and I got laid!! So to all soundtrack bachelors here... you got some seducing fire power in your hands! Just use it wisely and don't blow yourself up in the process!!

:-)

 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 3:56 PM   
 By:   Gold Digger   (Member)

They give me a nervous smile and back away slowly. Then run off at speed down the street.

 
 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 3:58 PM   
 By:   OnyaBirri   (Member)

I do not consider listening to music a "hobby." I infer from the word some component of activity or creativity.

 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 4:04 PM   
 By:   Sean Nethery   (Member)

My wife and daughter have been around me so long, they actually seem to enjoy a lot of the film music I play, but I play all kinds of music around others, so it's not a steady diet.

My wife has always been a supporter, if not a champion herself (beyond a few things like Vangelis and Michael Brook).
But I started my daughter early on soundtrack music, and she loved listening to On Her Majesty's Secret Service and William's The Lost World theme and Buckaroo Banzai(from the Neil Norman Sci Fi volume 4). It's not what she chooses to listen to now at 16, but we were watching the extended Hobbit/Unexpected Journey over the weekend, and she started humming to the Hobbit theme and the Ring theme, so she's kinda into it.

 
 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 4:11 PM   
 By:   Last Child   (Member)

music is like politics and religion. People can be extremely opinionated and righteous about what's "good," bad, dated, etc. I've given up even discussing it.

 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 4:13 PM   
 By:   Loren   (Member)

They have learnt it's better to ask before trying to buy some soundtrack which could appeal to me.
99 times out of 100 I already have it in my collection.

 
 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 4:28 PM   
 By:   jenkwombat   (Member)

My family doesn't get it, but kindly puts up with it.

Acquaintances are often dumbfounded that anyone could like "background music like that". I often have to explain to them that it can be brilliant and beautiful, in some ways almost like classical music. That can sometimes turn them off even more, for reasons I don't understand. After I've told them (truthfully) that I also like everything from The Beatles, The Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, The Velvet Underground and Nirvana to The Ramones and The SexPistols, they usually let it slide. As if I need their permission.

People can be so judgmental. "It's our way, or the highway", I guess....

 
 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 4:41 PM   
 By:   Last Child   (Member)

Acquaintances are often dumbfounded that anyone could like "background music like that". I often have to explain to them that it can be brilliant and beautiful, in some ways almost like classical music. That can sometimes turn them off even more, for reasons I don't understand.

Another explanation I used to give is that when I dont have time, or just cant tolerate anymore, to re-watch a favorite TVshow/movie, that the music is another way to re-experience it. And I can play it in the background while I do other stuff. Still didnt register with them.

 
 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 4:49 PM   
 By:   Chris Avis   (Member)

While I don't hide my hobby per se, I certainly don't make much of an effort to openly share it. Too many people close to me have reacted in ways like you describe. My wife tolerates my film music collecting (although she persistently maintains I have way too many CDs - she's right!), but I wouldn't say she's particularly enthralled with it either.

That's pretty much how it is round these parts as well, Chris. My wife puts up with it, though she constantly asks do I not already have that when I'm buying something new. She also thinks all Barry's music sounds the same! I don't personally know anyone who has interest in film music to any extent, apart from a little with my dad due to his love of 60s westerns. Most people look at me with bewilderment as to why I would listen to the music without the film. I'm also a big fan of musicals and don't know anyone else who shares that. I usually just get lumbered with the usual stereotypes.


My wife and I have kind of come to an unspoken agreement. I don't ask how much she spends on clothes and she doesn't ask how much I spend on soundtracks. Works well ;-)

Chris

 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 4:51 PM   
 By:   AlexCope   (Member)

My dad was casually into film scores when I was a kid, bringing home a John Williams compilation now and then, that sort of thing, so that's how I was first exposed to film scores as stand alone listening experiences. He got more into it when I really got to collecting in high school, taking an interest in all the big names, even taking me along with the whole family to the Goldsmith Hollywood Bowl concert for my birthday back in 1999. I lived in Arkansas at the time, so that was a big trip. He'd already had an interest in orchestral music, so he was predisposed to like a lot of it anyway. Now whenever we talk about movies we've seen lately, we still talk about the music, who did it. Last one he brought up was how much he liked Beltrami's music for The Giver.

My wife has no real interest in it other than that I like it, which is fine. She likes some Morricone, Goldsmith, and Williams and admits a couple of their pieces get her a little teary-eyed but crinkles her nose at a lot of Elfman's music. She once called Goldsmith the "king of shitty movies." I still get a kick out of that one.

 
 
 Posted:   Dec 16, 2014 - 4:52 PM   
 By:   Chris Avis   (Member)

Actually, now that I think of it, IF anyone asks me what I listen to, most of the time I just say "classical". To the average layperson, it sounds pretty similar and for whatever reason classical sounds highbrow and film scores sound weird. Go figure.

Chris

 
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